Hi All, Just a quick update because yes, it's probably crappy of me to just fall off the boards.... We are divorcing. He's very much done. I'm at a point where he's villanized me so completely to close friends and family I can't compete. He has completely re-written history and there's nothing I can do about it. Also, he's maintained contact with ex-OW, so I'm also competing with a ghost, very hard to do.
We are going to have the hearing sometime in late January. In the meantime, I hope to sell the house. As of now, H thinks he can come and go here as he pleases which is very infuriating.
I'm going to cut off contact as much as possible after this weekend. We have commitments that were made a little while back that I intend to keep, including a friend's child's first birthday. Then I'm going to a happy hour, then to a special party to meet other singles in town. Then Sunday is H's birthday and a friend of ours planned a little something at her place for him. After that, Monday's and Wednesday's he will have S until 8 at night and every other weekend. I will not be there to help him cover his weekends or evenings unless it's work related since we both need our jobs. I will not cover for golf or socializing any longer.
Oh and he ran up the credit cards again, but said I would not be responsible and will put it in the D decree.
One minute I'm ok, over it. One minute I really think about this and what is about to happen. I'm trying to stick more to being ok and moving forward, one step at a time.
