Coach, I've done some snooping which I'm not proud of. I still do not think she's having an affair -- but she's looking to see what's out there.
She's gone out with friends a few times since I moved into an apartment -- a couple of them are male friends, a couple of others are divorcees who probably were feeding her the "grass is greener" stuff. One is a twice divorced lady with two kids and now, I saw on Facebook, is back in love again.
And twice she's gone out with the maid of honor from our wedding who is a friend of mine and actually got us together originally.
She's also googled the one serious high school boy friend that she had, it looks like about three weeks ago.
There's also another thing I found which really shocked me but I'm not putting it on the forum. It's just so different from what I knew about her.
She didn't hit me with the ILYBINILWY. She hit me with the "I never really loved you" talk and the "we're just too different" talk.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6