I think she probably cares for you, and wants to know that you'll "be okay" with everything, as she knew (I'm guessing?) that you would have received the papers today?
It's called "normalizing," and it's very much script.
Oh, and "P.S." -- you can claim all you want to the contrary, but I DO think you're reading a LOT into it still! Your whole post still reeks of expectation and mind-reading, dude.
Sorry -- I know you're trying. And GOOD JOB on keeping things upbeat. It's just that if WE can feel the expectation here, in your posts, I can almost guarantee that your wife feels it in her interactions with you.
