Yeah, this was SUCH a subtle issue that I didn't even pick up on it myself UNTIL YESTERDAY!!
It was only after CJ headed off to work and I was feeling just fine with it that I realized how very differently it would have gone pre-DB.
Yet another insight for me as to how CJ felt me as so CONTROLLING, while I didn't see it that way much at all.
But one thing is clear to me...an equally remarkable change is that CJ TOLD me he wasn't up to talking about it (in so many words)...which I believe he would have been scared to do (for fear of my reaction..questions...assumptions) in the past.
Good luck with CAW, I don't think you'll have to wait forever, most folks DO like to talk about themselves!
