The paperwork seems to be done. I think there is nothing more you need to do as I received the decree in the mail. Thanks for the offer.
I would not have fought you over the divorce if I did not want to get back together. Nor would I have tried to remain friends and begin to repair our relationship from that basic level. In fact, I know you knew I wanted to reconcile because I can't count the number of times you told me that I needed to give up because we were never getting back together.
I am assuming you were joking with the comment about my hair, but it felt superficial and mean to me.
Friends need to have trust and respect just as much as couples do. While I appreciate your apology, and I can and have forgiven, I will never forget. I do not feel that I can trust you, and I have lost respect for you, so I don't feel that trying to be friends is feasible. If you had made this attempt when the wounds were more fresh, instead of scarring over, I probably would have agreed with you. But at this point, I really don't feel like there is anything more to say.
We do need to finish up a few paperwork things. My name is still on your car. Ideally, I would like to transfer the car solely to your name. But at the very least, I will do a transfer of liability. I need the license plate, last 5 of the VIN, and the address you want listed with DMV.
I have started filing copies of the divorce decree with my unit to get my status changed in DEERS and for housing allotments. My personnel officer recommended that you file a dependent form with a copy of the divorce decree immediately so that it takes effect before you get paid next and they don't have to garnish your wages later. She also had me change my W-4 so that I won't end up owing a ton of money on taxes.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
