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[awest1217]

Lucky-

I am definitely a novice still myself. I also read DR in September, but I think what is good with me is I never let H and myself get into a routine like him being gone is "normal". Even before DR, I have always set the boundary that separation will never be the norm and I will not stand for it for long so I think that is what has kept me motivated and ok with things like LRT because I don't want things to stay this way longer than the first of the year.

I dropped H's letter off about the bills, but first I made a copy so H can't say I didn't tell him. We will see where that goes. He has a therapy appointment tonight, but I don't think the therapist is about saving marriages so it scares me. It seems more like he is about people being happy, but that is the impression I get from H and could be wrong.

S is feeling warm again and getting fussy...uh oh