Oh, I forgot to tell u guys the funniest comment I have heard from him in a while.
Yesterday, while we were discussing the kid exchange on Friday, he says, well you are supposed to drop them off at (his stepdad's)work at 6. I say, yes, but there's a game Friday night. Aren't you going to just take them after the game like we normally do? Then, he says, all full of attitude and whatever, if you read your divorce decree it doesn't SAY I have to take him to his games. I don't HAVE to. (not the first time he has threatened to screw up kids plans, activities, you have to know my S LIVES for his sports since he was 4 years old)
So, in response, I say, you are right, it doesn't mandate that you be a good, loving father. You can mess up your kids lives even more if you want to. Nobody can MAKE you be a good dad.
He says, Well I don't want to mess them up anymore, that is why I put up with you!
Ummmmmm, yeah, excuse me? HE puts up with ME? LOL and LMAO. I have been nicer to him than 99.9 percent of other human beings in this case would be. omg.
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