Originally Posted By: ugetvince
I empathizied with her and then asked because I cant drive right now if she would be willing to take me to my appt today.
She said very short via text" No i cant take you but I hope all is okay" Im very angry,pissed,upset.


OK, do you have a reason to be upset? Did she give you any other reason other than she couldn't?

You just said that you appreciated how flexible she was. Maybe she had something she couldn't get out of? Work? An appointment?

Originally Posted By: ugetvince
The doctor is very concerned and i cant believe with as serious as this might be she cant be there to help me.


You're flipping out over one incident on one day? We are talking about someone who's not sure she wants to be married to you right now.

I get that you're in pain and need help, but you might be expecting a wee bit too much from her at the moment.

Originally Posted By: ugetvince
Maybe im better off just letting this marriage end. She really doesnt care about me anymore? What am I doing trying to hang on to something that isnt there?


I'd say wait 48 hours before making any hasty decisions.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."