Kalni - You misinterpreted what OldTimer said.

Originally Posted By: Kalni
If he ends up with her, I will never accept her as my kid's step mom. (she promised she would love them as if they were her own, GRRRR)

Maybe my thinking is ass backwards, but I dont see why having a step mom who would care about her husbands kids is all that bad. I have a step father and mother that care about me and my parents have accepted that over 30 years ago. Why carry the resentment?

BTW... The very first thing OM said to me was what great kids I had. Besides being a wife stealer, he is not that bad of a guy towards my kids.