Originally Posted By: stuck808
Have you tried things like flirting with her to get her attention away from the OM? Not really over the top things, but slow actions like you did when you were dating.


Funny you mention that, as I have just recently been subtly doing things that could be called flirting. No lingering or follow through, just quick comments, hugs, or pecks on the cheek at appropriate moments and then I leave/move on to what I was doing before. She will reciprocate hugs (not initiating but hugging back) but not kisses, but I really don't expect her to do anything. It does seem to lighten her mood and break the ice.


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