#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[MichelleLT]

I think he will obejct to passwords. I can hear him saying it's a privacy issue. I could get those, once again, but it wont be the same.

Remember not to make that a self-fulfilling prophecy and talk about it in the way most likely to get him to understand why you need that. Also, remember Michele's tips on picking the time and place to discuss things.

I'm not so sure he will object. He knows why you want to snoop, and his guilt may cause him to relent.

[smith18]

Cynical Kerry time. I am not a Pisces, but I bet that if I or any other non-Pisces were to have that horoscope, we could find meaning in it too. That is the way with horoscopes. They are just like fortune cookies in that they are so generic as to allow anyone to say "yeah, that is what I am experiencing now".

Horoscopes have about as much usefullness in my life as new age neuro-linguistic personal programming, hypnosis and firewalking.

[BobbiJo]

Oh, Kerry....just thought it would be interesting to post. Not putting all my stock in it!

[Kalni]

Kerry,
I have sent him a link a while ago about the LLs stating that athough for quite some time I thout QT is a big issue for me, the truth is that Physical Touch and Words of AFfirmation are my primary LLs. I dont think he recalls and I dont think he is trying to find ways to approach me. He is on automatic pilot mode. Which is typical for him.

As far as Kat's question is concerned. I am thinking about it. I can be loving with him I think, but I will not take good any signs of rejection from him. I dont like loving a man that doenst love me back. It's an invenstment I want to make with the lowest risk possible. Not sure it is feasible though.
K

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Holy heck Kerry, maybe it should be Miller Time instead? ; )

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Kalni,

In order to love, you have to risk everything.

What you're talking about seems like...well, 'like'.

[smith18]

I dont think he recalls and I dont think he is trying to find ways to approach me. He is on automatic pilot mode. Which is typical for him.

Remind him.

As far as Kat's question is concerned. I am thinking about it. I can be loving with him I think, but I will not take good any signs of rejection from him. I dont like loving a man that doenst love me back. It's an invenstment I want to make with the lowest risk possible. Not sure it is feasible though.

This is so chicken/egg. You have to take some risks if you want some gains. Show him some love over time and he will return it.

[Kalni]

Ok, gotcha you guys. Thanks for sticking around here...

I will think about it. Seriously. Maybe I will learn a few things about myself in the process...
K

[MichelleLT]

(((Maria)))

[Ready2Change]

Hey sweetie,

I loosely follow your sitch. I am confused. Would you briefly clarify what is the current state of the R with H is and what your current relationship goals are?

Thanks