My thoughts exactly. He's been living like a king. No wonder he doesnt want anything to change.

Boy is he going to get a wake up call. After a months of frozen pizza's and carry out he will be crying at your doorstep.

You are going to have to be super STRONG in order to not be manipulated with his GUILT again. Seriously. It will be imperative for you to break all contact and go dark. He will do anything to get you back or will immediantly find someone else to be his mommy.

The first couple weeks will be CRITICAL for you to SET BOUNDARIES that he will HAVE to RESPECT. You cant falter or he will not RESPECT you. He hasnt for so long. Why start now? You can do this. Stay strong. We are here for you.