My LL's are Quality Time and Physical Touch.

Is your H aware of your primary love languages?

Forward looking solutions are what you should focus on. I think that if you continue to bring up the past that it will hold both of you back.

And what about the answer to Kat's question...

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don't yell at me, but could YOU show him love? You both are so darned scared of getting your fingers bit, no one will make the first move.