He does the bill paying if it's electronic (if he needs a check written he fills out the info then I write the check and drop it in the mail), he picks up groceries sometimes if he's running low on salad fixings (he's the one who eats them frequently), we split loading/unloading the dishwasher, and he mows the lawn since S18 left for school (he says he doesn't trust me not to hurt myself since our backyard is rather sloped). Otherwise, I do the laundry, cook meals and wash dishes, do the mending, clean bathrooms and the kitchen, mop and vacuum floors, the majority of the grocery shopping, de-cluttering, chauffeur children and run the snow-blower during the winter (although he did start helping with that again last year. I'm the one who parks outside (and walks in high heels and dresses to work and we live in the Cleveland snow belt- sorry, that's a gripe) and he gets the garage, so he wasn't too concerned about keeping the driveway clear.) It's a pretty typical division.