Ohhh the costumes Kerry!!! Yes, I need to find a way to have a few things shipped over for me... I pay 3 times the cost on duties if the stores ship them directly. Any volunteers ? (except John and Ali, both non US residents)
Sex is a sticky point. He spent years of telling me he wasnt a one track minded man and right after the bomb he told my BF a secret about our sex life (my issue) and told her that is a big thing for him. Luckily, I have made progress in that area but unless we try, he wont know that...
And..., he had been having crazy sex with her and she sure sounded like a very "free" girl if you get my point. He even mentioned that to the first sessions we had with MC last year that "he worries sex wont be good between us".
I do wear nice lingerie, use perfumed body lotions, dont wear tshirts at bed, make sure my clothes are inviting but I am not the kind of girl that will wear tight stuff and trashy things. I do have low riding pants but somehow, I think it will take more than that to get him going. I was thinking of wearing a long blonde wigg once, resempling her hair and tell him "maybe that will do it for you"- LOL!!!
Anyway, Al, I think he will obejct to passwords. I can hear him saying it's a privacy issue. I could get those, once again, but it wont be the same.
Sex is not just a need thing for me. I want to know if it works between us. I may sound a one track minded woman but one of the things I have realised about myself is that it makes me feel loved and wanted and secure (LL=physical touch). And that the lack of it, cant be compensated for me in any other way. K
