Just wanted to add - I have read DR. It is currently loaned to a friend, who is joining the boards today also for problems in her own marriage and will come back to me probably Friday - and I plan on re-reading it - as many times as I need to, to make lasting change this time. REALLY WISH IT WAS IN AN AUDIOBOOK FORMAT!!! - that way I could keep in on play on my iPod in the car.
Me - 33 Him - 37 2 Children (D-8, S-5) Married 04/28/01 He Left 12/03/05 Updated Story