Can I save my marriage?

[4luv]

@britt...I haven't read your whole stitch but no matter what you do DO NOT ASK HIM ALL THE QUESTIONS YOU HAVE!!! I haven't been DBing for long but one thing that I know FOR SURE is that if you start asking him "why this and why that" he WILL pull away!! Just go with the flow...thats my motto from now on. Don't analyze the way your H acts because it won't make sense the majority of the time, especially while he is working through his own decisions.