Can I save my marriage?

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I've also read so many peoples sitch's where they don't get along very good, they argue and have more serious problems (infidelity, etc) and then they get past it and R. Well we don't have those major problems, we don't EVER argue. I can't remember the last time H and I argued. Probably back at the beginning of September. We don't have the infidelity issue, we get a long great, have a great fun relationship now. Why can't we get over the mountain?