Thanks people! I will work on this and respond later. Gotta run now. I resisted the urge to pursue again this morning - I'm freaking out because our "Marital Separation AGreement" (with no filing, hopefully) is gettin to the finalization point. H and I are planning on talking tonight. I must stay calm, cool, collected - because he's going ot expect me to totally freak out and be emotional. Which I am. Which is why I resisted the urge to call him. Now off to live life for me...back soon.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship