Kerry, I do think she's horrible, but I don't think my X would let her act the same way with our kids that she does with hers. And certainly if she offered alcohol to either of my kids, I believe they would let me know and I would go to a L so fast. For that reason alone, he is trying to get at least half custody now, I think he wouldn't allow something like that. The sleeping around she probably doesn't flaunt in front of X and my kids, I wouldn't think. If I ever hear any of that kind of stuff happens with my kids around, I will see the L about it.
I am going to speak to my L about the OW before the D next month, but from what I've heard you have way less control over what happens at the other parent's house-unless maybe there was abuse or illegal stuff going on.
Sorry for the hijack, Kat, guess it's pretty clear I feel the same as you!
