@sillyoldbear, I am sure she has been seduced by him and is having a EA, but she would never admit it as she is to "good" for that

found some messages on her phone that she had sent him asking if she should take our son the doctor as he is sick, the one message from her was just "xxx" and she had deleted all the messages he had sent. So I am pretty sure now!

anyway had a good day detaching and not contacting her, so gonna go on tomorrow and keep up the effort.

M: 30
W: 32
Married: 9 years
s: 2.8
Bomb dropped: 7-10-09
same house, bed, no physical contact
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1