I've been wondering if my husband feels bad because society says men should have a higher drive than women.
I wonder if my HD makes him feel bad about himself. If so, I bet any unhappiness I express makes him feel worse about the whole thing, resulting in less action on his part.
When we've talked about it in the past, he's said he's not like other guys. So, he knows he's LD.
Maybe it all comes back to my expectations.
I need to find a way to not take his LD as an insult to me.
The only thing I can think of is for me to keep losing weight and gaining confidence in myself.
Whacha think about my theory and my solution?
Hugs!
the theory sounds right on!
the solution also sounds right on but be warned by one who knows it can backfire or rather add fuel to the fire.
if you loose weight and then suddenly h is more interested will you think that was the reason and resent him for it? or yourself for it?
if you loose all the weight and become and get all kinds of looks from other men but h is still not as interested as you like what then will you do???
