Do I sit idlely (?) by and let it go on its merry course,while I try to be the best father I can be whilst trying to rebuild myself. How should I interact with her while this is going on? Short and cold w/o any compassion. Or like a next door neighbour. Or project an PMA, and try to lie my way through it all with her?
You never sit idlely. period. unattractive.
but with your relationship dilemma. since this affair has been going on for 12 months you have lost the opportunity to get it over with quickly.
How do you act? you don't act. you project. My life is great. this is actually the best thing that ever happened to me. wow. did that slap to the face wake me up. i never realized that there are that many single attractive woman interested in a man with two kids. I am free and having the time of my life. oh btw is sicko incapacitatated again. lol that must scuk. you should get him some of this soup i just had the other day at xxx resturaunt it was great.
some cell phones have text reminder, have that go off while interacting with her and say hey gotta go. no need to lie, go out and have a good time. think if you do reconcile you aint getting this chance again.