Quote: Just wondering Shiny and LL, would you have considered yourselves the high drive or the low drive before the bomb or in the years leading up to problems?
I know that in my m H's LD was a problem for many many years and is probably a huge part of what lead up to the problems...my constant "complaining" or interperting h's lack of libido as his not caring about me, leaving me to feel unloved, unnatractive, etc etc etc...I guess in trying to address the "problem" over the years I managed to communicate the same things back to him...I also know that my neg feelings about this would seep into other areas..ie h's football...if we had been intimate or some form of sex on sat night, I was not bothered by h's going to the game sun morning..but if nothing had occured for a while I would be a tad pissy when he'd go off to the game. Is part of the reason why I spend so much time wondering why the heck it was him who had the a and left instead of me.
