I think so long as you can differentiate between "Unconditional Love" and "Enabling Love With No Boundaries," you're fine.
It's saying to someone "I LOVE you unconditionally. But I do have boundaries of personal integrity, which are MORE IMPORTANT to me than my love for you. Even Jesus, when forgiving the adulteress, said 'Go and sin no more' -- that was His boundary. I LOVE you, but I don't NEED you, and I will do what I have to do to protect myself while I am standing for our marriage. There will come a time when I can no longer stand, because my patience is not without its limits, but for now, I WILL stand, and I WILL insist upon these boundaries."
