Besides holes in the wallpaper, he thought it was a vanity issue to hang pictures of our family, something like that. He just doesn't like them. Whatever. My kids' baby pictures are going back up, along with the Fist Communion portraits and current school pic for D17 and S18's Senior Pic.
He's gotta wonder if something's up, or he is in serious denial. Things should be a clue, like me talking to the MC by myself at the last appt, and staying home yesterday (I was copying financial records off the computer besides seeing my IC. I was hoping to get more done but he came home early- I didn't know he had a dr appt.) I know I can't worry about what he's thinking, and I'm not counting on any revelations by him while I'm packing or after I'm gone.