The boundarys have happened naturally.

We never see each other - he avoids me.
Never rings her when I am with her.
Never comes into the house when I am here.

The problem is that they are at college together on the same course. They help each other through it.
He helps her through our problems.
She helps him through his marriage breakdown and health issues.
He has a car - which she needs deserately (?).
She allows him to stay at her brothers since he got chucked out of his home by his wife...

So they help each other in so many ways - this is why I think it is a R of convenience - not a true R.
This is an important differance.




Cause all of the stars,
Have faded away,
Just try not to worry,
You'll see them someday.
Take what you need,
And be on your way and,
Stop crying your heart out.