Quote: It's getting me a little down...making me wonder about things...Like is he REALLY happy he stayed? Will he ever desire me again? Does he HAVE a sex drive?
shiny,
as you know we are in similar boats in the low libido h arena. Though it has not been a month this time for me it still is not with the frequency that I'd like...I'm beginging to wonder if I really do want more or if I'd simply like for h to want more?? ah but then I did initiate the night before last and was accepted...but then I wanted to tear his clothes off again last night...felt stiffled that I didn't or rather thought I couldn't or shouldn't...man what a world where a woman wants to drop her h's draws and give him what most men would beg for but feels she can't. .
I've noticed though that h is more likely to initiate when I do my best to keep such thoughts furthest from my mind...it's no fun for me that way as it then takes a while for me to be "in to it" and stop wondering "why now?". I did let h know when we got up to bed that I had naughty thoughts while we were down stairs...h simply replied "oh I must have missed that" but that was all...
I know it's not all you want but can you focus on these things instead??
Quote: We're cuddling...This morning
Quote: The other morning we caressed, and snuggled closely
and all the other great things that are going on with home improvements.
I don't think it fair to question your h's desire to be home with you...sure there's a libido miss match but his sexual desire may be masked under consideration for you not feeling well (I know that if I so much as have a cold that seems to be enough for h to take it upon himself to leave me alone), the fact that you are both tired and focussed on home repair etc.
sure the sex thang is an issue that eventually will need resolution but try not to let it drive you to questioning h's happiness to be home...let's not forget the ole love language theory k?
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