Have you set a boundary with your wife about the OM?
Can you describe why you feel angry?
How does it make you feel about your wife spending all this time with the OM?
Anger blinds us from seeing clearly. It's normal but don't do anything with her in state of anger.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.