Well, on Friday night I basically came right out and playfully suggested it ...CJ commented that he felt grubby (painting, no hot water for a shower) and that was that.

We HAVE discussed this issue, both pre and post bombs. He knows it's a big one for me. He has said he would "work on it"...but I don't have a clue as to what that means...work on desiring me??? ...how does one do THAT?

Sigh

Shiny