If she breaks down into tears, just act innoncent and say, "Well, I just knew you'd like what I've done with the place!" Never miss a beat and just keep acting as if you are a kid at a picnic.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I know it's only been a few days but I can honestly say that I don't miss my W. Whenever I start to think about her, I remember the feeling I had when I found the condoms hidden in her car & when I found out about the date she went on with OM while I watched our S. I'm still disgusted by those actions.
Anyway, I get to pick up my S at daycare today. Then I'll have him until Saturday evening. I can't wait to see him!
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
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M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
It was awesome to pick up my S from daycare & have him stay with me. He seems to be doing well & was acting like his 'normal' self last night.
He had one moment this morning when I was dropping him off at daycare when he got a really sad look on his face and said, "I miss mommy." I mean, what do you say to that??? I was able to cheer him up & he was smiling and waving at me out the window when I left. But I feel so bad for him having to go through all of this. Moments like that make me even more angry at W for giving up on our family. So selfish.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
I know what you mean e. It does seem so selfish, but it is out of our "control". I hate dropping my son off with the W when my time is up with him. I hate watching them walk away from me with him waving bye and his big blue eyes, with his beautiful smile....I just have to suck it up, and get in my vehicle and drive away like nothing is bothering me. Very hard to do.
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Me 44/W 32 S1 M8 Bomb 9/25/09 Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)
