Got a call from our legal aid person. STBX has arranged with legal aid lady this morning to have signing this friday. I need to go see Legal Aid lady tomorrow to make sure everything is in order.

Last night STBX called me to ask me if D14 was here at the house because she didn't answer her cell. I told her that she was at the condo because I was just on the phone with her.

STBX was angry because she said "I told her to call you and go over to your house because she hasn't seen you for 4 days because she has been sick".

I said that it was fine, and that D14 asked me to pick up some Thai food and bring it to her as she is still feeling sick. STBX said that she would 'yell at her' later when she got home.

I haven't seen or talked to STBX for about 8 days.

So, I waited about 15 minutes and then went to the Thai food place to get D14 what she wanted. As I was driving through the narrow parking lot STBX's minivan backs out of a parking space as I approach it so I have to stop. She then drives towards me and as she drives by she sort of smiles and waves to me.

I just stay neutral and give a short wave back. I couldn't help but think that she looked like a ghost to me.

I thought it was interesting that she went to the Thai place for food for herself before she went back to work. She knew I was going there.

When I got to the condo D14 showed me some paintings she was working on and told me that she was feeling better and going to school tomorrow. That's good for her as she misses school.

I noticed a large picture of STBX and OM on the fridge that wasn't there before. Face shots of them together.

It doesn't hurt much any more.


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