I'm probably asking a rhetorical question here but have you discussed the sex issue with CJ?? Did you let him know specifically that you wanted "a little somethin'- somethin' " or did you just wait for him to get the hint? Since you have been sick a lot lately and may have inadvertently turned him down maybe he is just waiting for YOU to make the 1st move?
Just a thought Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi