Okay all,

Fun and frivolity aside....

The sex issue still looms large. It's been over a month...

I know that my cold, fever, kidney pain etc didn't help matters (feeling lousy never does!) but the last two evenings/mornings...welllll....

Why NOT??? We're cuddling...This morning when he went to get up I made it clear that I didn't need any more sleep and we talked for a while...

The other morning we caressed, and snuggled closely, but not so much as a flicker of desire on his part, as far as I could tell.

It's getting me a little down...making me wonder about things...Like is he REALLY happy he stayed? Will he ever desire me again? Does he HAVE a sex drive?

I almost asked him that this morning...In fact it's probably due to the libido dampening effect of my anti-
D (the one he's on is supposed to BOOST libido! ) that this isn't a bigger issue for me.

Oh well, can't all be sunshine and roses, right?

Shiny