Please know that while I'm almost always advocating ACTION on the financial front, pre-emptively (firewalling the family's finances so someone who is wayward can't access them, and then TELLING them why I felt the need to do so), when I say "legal" I really am referring to nothing other than having a good, comprehensive initial (either free or paid) consultation. NO ACTION. And you do NOT need to tell your wife about it -- it's just sensible protection, considering her recent decisions and actions.
