Originally Posted By: Lanzo
This weekend nice W ask if we could go out for a meal to which I just mumbled ok, then she added “oh but you have to pay” to which I raised an eybrow, then mean W snapped back “oh forget it, it was just an idea”.

I dont understand this. If you are married, are not all financial things shared? Or are you like the couple in the movie "The Joy Luck Club" who itemize every financial thing?

Tough one on the border dispute. Tool #4 of the Bettermen Tools in the "Hold on to your NUT's" book - Run the Sex and Romance Departments.