I never thought I would be here

[2overcome]

Thanks puppy, and thanks to everyone so far for your support. As far as talking about the D or R, my wife had mentioned that she wanted to talk more about what was going on sometime soon. Now I perceive it is best to listen to what she has to say. More than likely she is going to also ask me if I feel better about the decision. What approach do I take to that question. So far she has asked that already and I replied "I have just been thinking about everything and figure some things out for myself" Is that the proper way to go about that? When she wants to talk about what to do, I am planning to try to avoid giving any input on my part but just telling her that I don't wan to talk about it that I want to clear my head and figure things out. Any advice to go about this?