Your sitch sounds very similar to mine. I made quite a few mistakes even though I had read portions of DR. I just did not have the intestinal fortitude at first. But I do now and it is very liberating to feel in control of my OWN life and accepting that I cannot change her. I have went dark and she is wondering already what is going on why so happy. To be honest I feel much better since I have done this. I feel like I have my life back. You can read my sitch here. Good luck and be strong.
