@HB20 My W is also into Angels and cards etc. Her kinesiologest also puts a big spin on God in what he does, so i just hope the fog will lift and she can see that she does not need me out of her life to be happy, because all that Ihave seen is that she is throwing out all the old things from the house, and I feel like one of things being dumped in the trash.
It IS amazing how they all try to convince you (and each other) that God is behind all of their actions and is working "through them" to help other people. I kinda doubt God needs Angel cards or Animals or mystical astrologers to tell you what you need to do with your life. Far as I can tell, he has a direct line to each of us that he can use any time.
I feel the same way about her happiness. I've asked her many times why she can't develop all these "powers" and explore new parts of herself AND STILL be married to me. She feels, based on everything she's been told, that I am holding her back from being her "highest, best self" and she will never get there if she stays with me. It's all brainwashing in my opinion, but it's "real" to her.
@SillyOldBear - I agree that something lacking in our marriage helped "push" her to seek it elsewhere, hence her EA and subsequent search for "highest, best, self". But her refusal to recognize it and try to work things out is more a result of MLC, rather than my specific actions, IMHO. Her refusal to acknowledge changes I've made and see that things would/will be different in the future and that we could have the marriage she wants is a result of the fog she is now in, as is her inability to foresee the immense damage she will cause and/or has already caused.
Me 47 W 44 D16, D13 T 23yrs M 20yrs WAW/MLC + Male EA "BFF from H.S." = Misery
