Originally Posted By: Sanderika
Cas, How has the friendship road been travelled for you?

I think we should dissect this topic in baby steps or we will all get buried in information, AGREE?

How has the friendship road fared for you?

Originally Posted By: Cas05
tonight when I talked to H. He said he sensed that we were getting closer and he had to tell me that a reconciliation wasn't going to happen ever, that he wanted to be friends but he would never get back with me. It just wouldn't work. He said he would be living with OW if it wasn't for the kids. He said I needed to move on and get a new person in my life.

sorry but that is a $hit a$$ thing for a friend to say. Please tell me when he said that you said, OK. Grabbed your cell phone, locked yourself in the car and called someone.


I have been reading what you girls have been posting and I can't seem to figure out what you are all trying to accomplish.

Try to be your husband's friend while they have an affair so that someday you can be lovers again?