Sry you find yourself here ramb and welcome. Like Indy said you will have great support here. Giver her the space she is asking for. Dont chase after her and get tearful. Avoid talks about ur R and by all means go on ur vacation. Keep it FUN. Just have fun if it kills you. If she does go, dOnt talk about ur R or anything else like that. Stay upbeat and happy. Concentrate on ur daughter and make certain she has the vacation of her life. Ur wife will see that and want to be a part of it. Just dont pressure her. Invite her to join in without any expectations. And if she does just smile and keep going.
