I have bought the DR a couple of days ago, and started reading it yesterday during my lunch break. So far I am to pg 120 something. Seeing the marriage roadmap, gave me some hope - as I saw my current situation reflected in on of the phases. If we could just make it through this phase I know our marriage would benefit and be so much stronger. So far I am trying the LRT, doing my best to give her space, not talking about working things out, and not calling her (unless its something important or dealing with our daughter), sounding happy when I talk to her, and trying to be positive. I started doing this yesterday, and she has already asked why the change, and do I feel better about her decision. I told her that I am just figuring things out for myself and trying to move on and work with me.


My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1867595#Post1867595