Rambler: Welcome. You will find great support here.
There are some experts here who really know their stuff. Listen to them and take their advice. Four years ago, I did my dbing very well and saved my marriage. This time, I did it very poorly and have not been nearly as successful. I have not given up yet, but have made it much more difficult now.
So..don't do what I did. Listen, learn and live what you read in DB and DR and what you find here. There is no guarantee that you will save your marriage, but it will allow you to save yourself.
