The talks went on over the next few days, she wants to find someone who completes here and she wants me to be able to find someone who completes me. She stated that she was afraid she wouldn't find that person and she was afraid of being alone. I told her that I wanted to work through this, that marriages aren't always easy and will come to rough spots, and that we should work through them. "For better or worse" I reminded her. I told her that what makes a marriage more stronger, is to work through the hard times so you can appreciate the end result in the long run (in a nutshell). She doesn't want to feel trapped and miserable. We also have a daughter who is 5. We are still in the same house, and she wants to wait until things are figured out before it goes into motion (finances, ect).
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