That is all I think about, how my actions will affect the kids! My father was an alcoholic who was not physically abusive but was emotionally and my mother was too afraid to leave him and go out on her own. I remember as a kid vowing when I got married I wouldn't be like my mom and look at me now! I know deep in my heart that things will be ok if a D happens. I didn't get married until I was 31 and had been very independent. I am going to do something I haven't done in years and go to church this Sunday. I was not raised to go but did go with friends occasionally. Thinking now is a good time to check it out! Appreciate the advice! Keep it coming!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
