You know, everything that Was said, about healing, about the timeline, it is where we have all been going, just not so directly.
We can’t do the work for you, just like no one did it for us, but we do and will try to get you to see it. I am sorry if you have felt like we were attacking you.
That is not the case here at all. You can vent and rage and just put it all out there, but when we feel that you may be getting stuck, or that you may be making excuses, we will and do point it out. That is because we have all been there.
I too have read those rules of thumb about healing timelines. I also read something from a very renowned psychiatrist who learned actually from one of his therapy patients, healing, can happen in 5 minutes or 5 lifetimes. There is no set time for it. We, as individuals, are the only one who can really determine for ourselves how long healing takes.
You are doing well. We just want to see you continue on your path of growth.
((((hugs))))
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
