<<I am thinking of setting the boundary about her this weekend when hopefully he will be a bit more relaxed>>
Hey K, i realize that this "her" thing is lingering....i am not sure what that boundary is but i have a hunch it will not make for a very relaxed weekend discussion.
I find it very tricky to take one person's point of view (yours) and make judgements on the other person....but I will go ahead anyway. I agree with others here in that it is a two way street. I also think that your husband is very lucky to have another chance and if he were a SUPERIOR man, he would take the bull by the horns and LEAD.
