Thanks Guys! Well D8 turns D9 on the 27th so I will be celebrating her birthday as well as my first days as a legally single man..... K, you are right i did not want this but i have accepted it and i have moved on as best i could. Have I been changed by all this...of course. Hopefully mostly for the better.....but I have lost something.... Some have called me more cynical and maybe that is true. I realize that nothing lasts forever.....