Originally Posted By: Storm Rider


My plan is to have absolutely zero expectations for H and that he will find it more stressful than usual.



Oh SR......

Thats giving away waaaayyyy too much power....


The ONLY thing to expect is the unexpected.

Cause if that doesn't happen, and he appears to be handling things well....

YOU are the recipient of all of that stress....

Just keep in mind....the seeds you plant through the holidays this year....

Will be the fruit you bear next holidays, where ever the harvest is picked.....