Originally Posted By: P17


It got me thinking again though. We were so happy. I mean blissfully happy. For 6 years of the 7 we were deeply in love. The last year wasn't great but it wasn't the worst year of my life. Again, reiterating old ground I just find it so difficult to understand how we got to where we were to where we are now so quickly, with so little love and with so much anger and hatred.


P,

The introduction of a third person can do that. It's more physiological (brain endorphines) than emotional, and CERTAINLY more than logical. In other words, whereas perhaps your wife wasn't quite as "blisfully happy" as you thought she was (DAM-ness), she's almost CERTAINLY not as UNhappy/UNinlove as she exhibits right now.

It's the fog.

Puppy